Every so often I get requests from women who are looking for some form of punishment. Obviously, their individual requirements differ but some things have surprised me.
Firstly, it always seems to me good to meet first at a public venue and have a chat over coffee or a drink to meet each other, gain a level of trust and understanding and discuss how the meeting proper might go. Surprisingly (to me) most women who have approached me want to pretty much come straight round and be spanked, caned or whatever, even if they have to travel a good distance.
Does it not make the experience safer for the women if we meet first?
Why the urgency, especially when they might have been considering this for some time?
The two most popular requests are to be spanked across my knee or to be bent over a desk and caned. I try to cater for all requests if I can. Do I mind if they keep their panties/knickers on? No, I feel it’s up to them. Can they keep their skirts/trousers on? Yes, again it’s up to them. Will it hurt? Yes, certainly.
What are other people’s experiences?